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Today the "Spirit Day"

Today I'd like to share a small event, the apparently banal, but highly significant for me and a friend.

Over the years, my blog gave me the chance to meet an incredible number of amazing people. People who have come to understand the guy a little "fuck in the head" that I am, and who also realize that I am safe. At least that's what I suggest jeure!

For over a year I came to develop a super nice relationship with the beautiful Alex Andrew, very very attractive young man, but unfortunately very straight, beginning 20aine following all of my writings and in his view, is reveling in my posts and my comments just as provocative and colorful as each other.

Alex-Andre;

"There is a spontaneity that emerges from the pen of ti-guy . His readings are simple and refreshing. It goes direct to the point and makes me smile to everyone's tickets. ... For me ti-guy , you're my favorite mon'oncle, I not fear for my heterosexuality to find myself alone in a room with you. I even think that you're the kind of guy to whom I could confide my secrets and be at ease. "

Comments like this one, it's good to hear, right?

Alex Andrew and I have come to become friends on Facebook which facilitates exchanges and feedback.

Last week, following a change in his profile picture on Facebook and in one of my moments of excitement, I started to give him a compliment which expresses very clearly my attraction for him. I admit, the sort of comment that could make anyone, gay or straight, very uncomfortable. People who were very confident does not let himself be disturbed by such comments, polite but very clear, you get the picture?

I often misjudge the level of comfort people have with the phenomenon of "gay" with my friends and in doing so I made a comment that made him so ill at comfortable that he has erased its message board.

So he sends me this message;

"Your message me a good laugh ... when I saw the video of you lately, love it when you said you wrote something that people say''Ya you really write it there himself? "That's exactly what I said and I found it funny.:) Most of my friends find it funny too.


However, I removed the message my wall ... and that's why I write, not to make you feel insulted by that ... but facebook it is wide, and the problem is that from my contacts, there are parents (aunt, uncle etc) hardly know me and do not know your second level of humor. I do not want to experience their performances or duty to explain.


But honestly my friend ... Your comments always make me laugh ... you got a natural humor and you live without censorship ... This should be good for you. I'm anxious and suffers from a constant fear of the image that I send ... it seemed perhaps not, but I am very sensitive to what others may think ... And attention, I know this is not correct, but I assume myself well, it's in my nature, a side surface and a lack of confidence in me probably.


Anyway, it's nothing personal Guy, although I am not a sailor (!), Your comment was flattering:) and plus it was very funny ... so I hope you understand my point ... "

In a second email, Alex Andrew goes as follows;

" It's disappointing to see my attitude eh. We have asked Yesterday my views on homosexuality and I quickly replied that I am very comfortable with that I have 3-4 friends gays around me and for me there is no difference between a couple gay or straight.

Yet faced with a simple joke about me ... I realize that I am not as comfortable as I thought.

In my defense, I would add that a woman has made a comment recently on one of my photos in sex and I heard also delete lai ... "

Alex-Andre n ' has not wonder if I'm angry or not, he knows me well and he knows I understand why he deleted my comment. It is normal to feel like that. Any young age, gay or not, do not want to be equated with this kind of thing. Who would think that they are gays, especially when they are not? The company has not prepared for this, and more systematically established that being gay is simply not normal. Who would be part of such categories, eh?

Being gay in 2010 in our society is still frowned upon and often people simply will not be involved. For many, being gay enough to end their days.


And that's what I wanted to talk to you!

Today "spirit day" in memory of the 6 young homosexual who recently committed suicide, unable to bear more homophobic abuse occurred at home, at school and in life , a global movement initiated by the student Brittany McMillan "RIP In Memory of the recent suicide due to abuse gay, wear purple" was established.

that, I thank Alex-Andre for his unconditional friendship, and makes me realize that even in my moments alone, I am still a friend. Keep your smile, because it fits you well, my dear friend.

Thanks, Alex!

The Ms. ...